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这些迹象表明,你的朋友爱上你了 [复制链接]

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Their body language indicates that they want more.
他们的肢体语言表明,他们想要的可不止这些。
According to a study published in the Psychological Bulletin, lead author R Matthew Montoya found that behaviors like leaning, smiling, and maintaining eye contact were indicators of attraction in nearly every culture around the globe.
据《心理学公报》(Psychological Bulletin)期刊发表的一项研究表示,首席作者R Matthew Montoya发现:倾斜、微笑和眼神交流等行为是欣赏对方的迹象,全球通用(不论文化)。
Hugging is another indication of your friend wanting more, especially if a warm embrace lingers on a second longer than a quick, perfunctory hello. Professional physiotherapist Kuraj said hugging is a therapeutic gesture that "increases production of a hormone called oxytocin." Oxytocin is a hormone responsible for feelings of trust, comfort, and affection. If your friend wraps you in a hug that makes your heart skip a beat, chances are they are feeling that same rush of warmth.
拥抱也表明,你的朋友想要的还有更多,尤其是你们热情相拥,时间超过一秒时(不是那种敷衍式的打招呼)。专业物理治疗师Kuraj说,拥抱是一种治疗行为,"会增加催产素的分泌。"催产素是一种关乎信任、舒适和喜爱的激素。如果朋友抱着你的时候让你的心跳漏了一拍,那他/她也很有可能有同样的感受。
They seek you out in group situations.
团体聚会的时候,他们会找你。
If you and your friend are part of a larger friend circle, pay attention to how often they gravitate towards you in group situations. Even if you are doing separate things or having conversations with other people, their physical closeness is evidence that they like you as more than a friend. This need to be close to you expresses their comfort towards you in shared spaces and indicates that they subconsciously want to be closer to you in emotional ways as well.
如果你和你的朋友有更大的社交圈子,那就注意他/她在团体聚会时找你的频率。即使你们做着不同的事情,或与不同的人进行交谈,他们也更想贴近你,这就表明他们对你的喜欢可能不只是朋友这么简单哦。想要与你亲近表明了他们与你呆在共享空间内的舒适感,也说明他们会下意识地想在情感上与你靠近。
Nonverbal behaviors-such as seeking you out in a crowd and eliminating physical barriers in group settings-indicate the person you like wants "to interact with you, which gives you an opportunity to develop your relationship under favorable conditions," Jack Schafer Ph.D. wrote for Psychology Today.
非语言行为--比如在人群中找你以及清除群体环境中的物理障碍--表明这个人想"与你互动,让你在有利的条件下有机会与他/她发展恋情,"Jack Schafer博士为《今日心理学》写道。
They take an interest in things you like.
他们对你喜欢的事物很感兴趣。
According to psychologist Elinor Greenberg's book "Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety," your friend taking an active interest in your hobbies, skills, and ambitions is a clear sign that they foster feelings for you. More than that, this interest indicates that they would make a great partner in a potential relationship.
心理学家埃莉诺·格林伯格的著作《边缘、自恋和精神分裂适应:追寻爱情、爱慕和安全》(Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety)表示:若朋友对你的爱好、技能或野心感兴趣,这明确表明他们对你动了心。更重要的是,这种兴趣表明如果你和他/她谈恋爱,他/她会是一个很棒的伴侣。
"One of the signs that your date is likely to make a good mate is [if] he or she shows genuine interest in your life and listens attentively when you are speaking," wrote Greenberg.
"约会对象是绝佳伴侣的迹象之一:他/她是否对你的生活真正感兴趣;当你说话的时候,他/她有没有认真在听,"格林伯格写道。





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烘焙是一种应对疫情的方法
When I lost that main structure of going to school of being in a physical environment,
I kind of ended up falling back on baking as this thing that brings me comfort.
当我失去了去上学的这个物理环境时,我又开始了烘焙,因为它给我带来了舒适。
For the better part of her life Chloe Tom Sue has staved off clinical depression
and anxiety with social activities.
克洛伊·汤姆·苏在她生活的大部分时间里,通过社交活动来避免临床上的抑郁和焦虑。
Like other college students in the country Chloe who also happens to be my daughter
她是我的女儿,就像美国的其他大学生一样,
had to switch the remote studying and
practice social distancing leaving her feeling helpless and isolated.
不得不换成进行远程学习和远距离社交,这让她觉得无助和孤独。
She's not alone according to developmental psychologist Colin Valenti.
据发展心理学家科林·瓦伦蒂表示,她并不是个例。
So a lot of people who suffer from anxiety can easily pop into the what-ifs the catastrophizing, you know what I call awfulizing, the worst case scenarios,
所以很多患有焦虑症的人很容易把事情想的很糟,你知道我所说的是最糟糕的情况,
and so in my practice what were doing a lot of is working on kind of recognizing what can I control.
所以在我的实践中,我们做的很多事情致力于认识到我们能控制什么。
I can make myself a cup of hot tea, I can go out for a walk, I can do some deep breathing exercises.
我可以为自己泡一杯热茶,我可以外出散步,我可以做一些深呼吸练习。
Chloe has focused on baking. I thrive on routine,
the one of the reasons I like baking so much is it's this thing with steps,
克洛伊专注于烘焙。我喜欢日常工作,我喜欢烤面包的原因之一就是它是有步骤的,
and you have to kind of be conscious of what you're doing and it allows me to do a lot of things,
你必须意识到你在做什么,这让我能做很多事情,
it allows me to be creative you know, to try out new things even if they fail to taste something nice
and it allows me to feed people which is something I really like.
它使我变得有创造力,让我去尝试新事物,
即使它们很难吃,它还让我为别人做东西吃,这是我真的喜欢的。
Baking highly depends on using the right ingredients
and these days finding them on depleted grocery store shelves is a challenge.
烘焙在很大程度上取决于使用正确的材料,
而最近,在那些断货的商店货架上找到它们是一种挑战。
So this is the flour section as you see we have a huge selection to choose from.
这是面粉货架,如你所见,我们有很多可供选择。
There is nothing and corn mill.
什么都没有,还有玉米面粉。
After venturing to three different stores she finally finds flour
at a small neighborhood market. I would say 2 pounds.
她冒险去了三家不同的商店后,终于在附近的一个小市场上找到了面粉。我想是2磅。
Is that right? yeah brilliant like two to three pounds something like that thank you.
对吗?是的,很聪明,2到3磅,谢谢。
Back in the kitchen Chloe gets the pies ready for the oven.
回到厨房,克洛伊把馅饼准备好放进烤箱。
I'm like how it looks because it looks like most snow fall on the berries.
我喜欢它的样子,因为看起来像雪落在浆果上了。
It's been pretty. Food has this ability of really bringing people together.
它很好看。食物有一种真正让人们团结一致的能力。
The results are superb, a crusty fragrant berry pie, a creamy pumpkin pie and a spicy chocolate cake.
结果非常棒,一个脆香的浆果派,一个奶油南瓜派和一个辛辣的巧克力蛋糕。
The family gathers around the table for a pie feast. This is so much better than math class.
一家人围坐在桌旁吃馅饼。这比数学课好多了。
This is a tangible proof that I've done something today and
that I'm continuing to to push forward despite feeling kind of you know cruddy.
这是一个有形的证据,证明我今天做了一些事,尽管有一点不舒服,但我会继续做这件事的。
I don't know what to choose, shelter at home, eat pies. Thank You Chloe.
我不知道选择什么,隔离在家,吃馅饼。谢谢你,克洛伊。
What does that say life is all about how you, I can't read.
那句话怎么说的,生活是关于你如何,我读不出来。
A life is all about how you handle Plan B.
生活就是你如何处理B计划。


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