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Their body language indicates that they want more.
According to a study published in the Psychological Bulletin, lead author R Matthew Montoya found that behaviors like leaning, smiling, and maintaining eye contact were indicators of attraction in nearly every culture around the globe.
据《心理学公报》(Psychological Bulletin)期刊发表的一项研究表示,首席作者R Matthew Montoya发现:倾斜、微笑和眼神交流等行为是欣赏对方的迹象,全球通用(不论文化)。
Hugging is another indication of your friend wanting more, especially if a warm embrace lingers on a second longer than a quick, perfunctory hello. Professional physiotherapist Kuraj said hugging is a therapeutic gesture that "increases production of a hormone called oxytocin." Oxytocin is a hormone responsible for feelings of trust, comfort, and affection. If your friend wraps you in a hug that makes your heart skip a beat, chances are they are feeling that same rush of warmth.
They seek you out in group situations.
If you and your friend are part of a larger friend circle, pay attention to how often they gravitate towards you in group situations. Even if you are doing separate things or having conversations with other people, their physical closeness is evidence that they like you as more than a friend. This need to be close to you expresses their comfort towards you in shared spaces and indicates that they subconsciously want to be closer to you in emotional ways as well.
Nonverbal behaviors-such as seeking you out in a crowd and eliminating physical barriers in group settings-indicate the person you like wants "to interact with you, which gives you an opportunity to develop your relationship under favorable conditions," Jack Schafer Ph.D. wrote for Psychology Today.
非语言行为--比如在人群中找你以及清除群体环境中的物理障碍--表明这个人想"与你互动,让你在有利的条件下有机会与他/她发展恋情,"Jack Schafer博士为《今日心理学》写道。
They take an interest in things you like.
According to psychologist Elinor Greenberg's book "Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety," your friend taking an active interest in your hobbies, skills, and ambitions is a clear sign that they foster feelings for you. More than that, this interest indicates that they would make a great partner in a potential relationship.
心理学家埃莉诺·格林伯格的著作《边缘、自恋和精神分裂适应:追寻爱情、爱慕和安全》(Borderline, Narcissistic, and Schizoid Adaptations: The Pursuit of Love, Admiration, and Safety)表示:若朋友对你的爱好、技能或野心感兴趣,这明确表明他们对你动了心。更重要的是,这种兴趣表明如果你和他/她谈恋爱,他/她会是一个很棒的伴侣。
"One of the signs that your date is likely to make a good mate is [if] he or she shows genuine interest in your life and listens attentively when you are speaking," wrote Greenberg.


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When I lost that main structure of going to school of being in a physical environment,
I kind of ended up falling back on baking as this thing that brings me comfort.
For the better part of her life Chloe Tom Sue has staved off clinical depression
and anxiety with social activities.
Like other college students in the country Chloe who also happens to be my daughter
had to switch the remote studying and
practice social distancing leaving her feeling helpless and isolated.
She's not alone according to developmental psychologist Colin Valenti.
So a lot of people who suffer from anxiety can easily pop into the what-ifs the catastrophizing, you know what I call awfulizing, the worst case scenarios,
and so in my practice what were doing a lot of is working on kind of recognizing what can I control.
I can make myself a cup of hot tea, I can go out for a walk, I can do some deep breathing exercises.
Chloe has focused on baking. I thrive on routine,
the one of the reasons I like baking so much is it's this thing with steps,
and you have to kind of be conscious of what you're doing and it allows me to do a lot of things,
it allows me to be creative you know, to try out new things even if they fail to taste something nice
and it allows me to feed people which is something I really like.
Baking highly depends on using the right ingredients
and these days finding them on depleted grocery store shelves is a challenge.
So this is the flour section as you see we have a huge selection to choose from.
There is nothing and corn mill.
After venturing to three different stores she finally finds flour
at a small neighborhood market. I would say 2 pounds.
Is that right? yeah brilliant like two to three pounds something like that thank you.
Back in the kitchen Chloe gets the pies ready for the oven.
I'm like how it looks because it looks like most snow fall on the berries.
It's been pretty. Food has this ability of really bringing people together.
The results are superb, a crusty fragrant berry pie, a creamy pumpkin pie and a spicy chocolate cake.
The family gathers around the table for a pie feast. This is so much better than math class.
This is a tangible proof that I've done something today and
that I'm continuing to to push forward despite feeling kind of you know cruddy.
I don't know what to choose, shelter at home, eat pies. Thank You Chloe.
What does that say life is all about how you, I can't read.
A life is all about how you handle Plan B.

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