第一次跟你牵手，我就想告诉你，我想这样一辈子。后来我们怎么了，不记得，但是也就没有告诉你。When we first held the hands, I wanted to tell you, this can be good for a life. But what happened later I don’t remember nor I have told you I have once felt so.敷衍表示谎言已经开始 冷淡表示感情即将结束。Brushing off means the lie starting, cold shoulder means the relationship is about to end.折磨人的是人们对事物的看法，而不是事物本身。 Painstaking is the perception for people, not the object itself.谈上朋友时，人们感叹上辈子积德了；结婚后开始怀疑上辈子造了什么孽。 When a relation starts, people feel there must be a blessing from their good deed in the previous life, but after married, they start to wonder what cursing thing they have done in the previous life.泡酒吧的男人是找刺激的，而女人，多半是受过刺激的。 A man likes hanging at the bar for excitement, while women are there because of being abused.做个像石灰一样的人，别人越泼你冷水，你的人生就越沸腾。 Live like the quicklime, the more people splash cold water on you, the more you boil.不论结局，感恩相遇。生命中遇到的人，尽量去爱他们，即使终有一别，也别辜负了相遇。 Regardless the ending, appreciate all the encounters. Love them even there will be parting, still don’t fail the fate of encountering.只有到了这种心境，人生才豁然开朗：三十功名尘与土，八千里路云和月。Only when arriving to such level, life thus turns clear: The thirty years of pursuing self accomplishment, just soil and dust; life has been a journey of eight thousand miles of cloud and moonlight.经目之事犹恐未真，背后之言岂能全信。 Even witnessed by your own eyes cannot be all true, how can then to trust words from the third party?老是爱幻想着遥远的梦境，却凌乱了脚下向前，艳羡着別人的幸福，漠视了身边的快乐。 We are stuck with the illusion of the faraway dream, and mess up proceeding steps; admire the happiness of the others, and overlook the joy by our side.古来多少豪杰，我不想变成完全那样。但是希望薪火相传其气度与节操。 There are so many outstanding heroes, I don’t expect to turn into like them. But with hope to continue his legacy of self-discipline and wide mind on myself.爱一个人难，在爱里总是需要妥协，也难。 To love somebody is hard, it is even harder to need to compromise in love.独处从不嫌寂寞，最烦找人聊大天。无事上树且睡觉，自有清风过眼前。 Never feel lonely when being alone, and can’t bore me more to gossip. When there is nothing, I prefer to sleep on the tree and enjoy the cool breeze brushing my eyes.我们劳苦的最高报酬，不在于我们所获得的，而在于我们会因此成为什么。 The highest return for our striving is not the compensation, but what will lead us to become.